Talk It Over - January 9, 2022

Getting Back Up: John 21:1-19

Scripture Passages

John 1:42

Then Andrew brought Simon to meet Jesus. Looking intently at Simon, Jesus said, “Your name is Simon, son of John—but you will be called Cephas” (which means “Peter”).

John 21:1-19

21 Later, Jesus appeared again to the disciples beside the Sea of Galilee. This is how it happened. Several of the disciples were there—Simon Peter, Thomas (nicknamed the Twin), Nathanael from Cana in Galilee, the sons of Zebedee, and two other disciples.

Simon Peter said, “I’m going fishing.”


“We’ll come, too,” they all said. So they went out in the boat, but they caught nothing all night.

At dawn Jesus was standing on the beach, but the disciples couldn’t see who he was. He called out, “Fellows, have you caught any fish?”


“No,” they replied.


Then he said, “Throw out your net on the right-hand side of the boat, and you’ll get some!” So they did, and they couldn’t haul in the net because there were so many fish in it.


Then the disciple Jesus loved said to Peter, “It’s the Lord!” When Simon Peter heard that it was the Lord, he put on his tunic (for he had stripped for work), jumped into the water, and headed to shore. The others stayed with the boat and pulled the loaded net to the shore, for they were only about a hundred yards from shore. When they got there, they found breakfast waiting for them—fish cooking over a charcoal fire, and some bread.


10 “Bring some of the fish you’ve just caught,” Jesus said. 11 So Simon Peter went aboard and dragged the net to the shore. There were 153 large fish, and yet the net hadn’t torn.


12 “Now come and have some breakfast!” Jesus said. None of the disciples dared to ask him, “Who are you?” They knew it was the Lord. 13 Then Jesus served them the bread and the fish. 14 This was the third time Jesus had appeared to his disciples since he had been raised from the dead.


15 After breakfast Jesus asked Simon Peter, “Simon son of John, do you love me more than these?”


“Yes, Lord,” Peter replied, “you know I love you.”


“Then feed my lambs,” Jesus told him.


16 Jesus repeated the question: “Simon son of John, do you love me?”


“Yes, Lord,” Peter said, “you know I love you.”


“Then take care of my sheep,” Jesus said.


17 A third time he asked him, “Simon son of John, do you love me?”


Peter was hurt that Jesus asked the question a third time. He said, “Lord, you know everything. You know that I love you.”

Jesus said, “Then feed my sheep.


18 “I tell you the truth, when you were young, you were able to do as you liked; you dressed yourself and went wherever you wanted to go. But when you are old, you will stretch out your hands, and others will dress you and take you where you don’t want to go.” 19 Jesus said this to let him know by what kind of death he would glorify God. Then Jesus told him, “Follow me.”

John 13:37–38

37 “But why can’t I come now, Lord?” he asked. “I’m ready to die for you.”


38 Jesus answered, “Die for me? I tell you the truth, Peter—before the rooster crows tomorrow morning, you will deny three times that you even know me.

John 18:17; 25-27

17 The woman asked Peter, “You’re not one of that man’s disciples, are you?” “No,” he said, “I am not.”...


...25 Meanwhile, as Simon Peter was standing by the fire warming himself, they asked him again, “You’re not one of his disciples, are you?” He denied it, saying, “No, I am not.” 26 But one of the household slaves of the high priest, a relative of the man whose ear Peter had cut off, asked, “Didn’t I see you out there in the olive grove with Jesus?” 27 Again Peter denied it. And immediately a rooster crowed.


Reflect on the Passages

Take a moment to read through the passages slowly. Ask the Holy Spirit to speak to you through them.


Is there a word or phrase that God is drawing to your attention? What is He saying to you through these passages?

Engage with the Message

1) What stood out to you from the Scripture passages and/or this week's message?


2) In what ways is God challenging you and/or encouraging you through the message?


3) How do you think Peter felt after denying Jesus three times? Why do you think he found himself there after being so confident that he would be willing to give up his life for Jesus?


4) What do you think Peter was expecting Jesus to say when he pulled him aside for a talk? What would you have been expecting Jesus to say if you were in Peter's position?


5) What surprises you about the conversation between Jesus and Peter?


6) In what ways have you experienced God in your normal, day-to-day life? Do you find it easy or difficult to be attentive to His presence and activity in the ordinary?


7) In what ways have you been transformed by God's grace?


8) Where in your life have you been stuck in guilt, shame or a sense of inadequacy? What would it look like to receive God's love and grace in this area of your life?