Talk It Over - May 8th, 2022

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Scripture Passages

Ephesians 2:4–5

But God is so rich in mercy, and he loved us so much, that even though we were dead because of our sins, he gave us life when he raised Christ from the dead. (It is only by God’s grace that you have been saved!)

Ephesians 2:11–22

11 Don’t forget that you Gentiles used to be outsiders. You were called “uncircumcised heathens” by the Jews, who were proud of their circumcision, even though it affected only their bodies and not their hearts. 12 In those days you were living apart from Christ. You were excluded from citizenship among the people of Israel, and you did not know the covenant promises God had made to them. You lived in this world without God and without hope. 13 But now you have been united with Christ Jesus. Once you were far away from God, but now you have been brought near to him through the blood of Christ.


14 For Christ himself has brought peace to us. He united Jews and Gentiles into one people when, in his own body on the cross, he broke down the wall of hostility that separated us. 15 He did this by ending the system of law with its commandments and regulations. He made peace between Jews and Gentiles by creating in himself one new people from the two groups. 16 Together as one body, Christ reconciled both groups to God by means of his death on the cross, and our hostility toward each other was put to death.


17 He brought this Good News of peace to you Gentiles who were far away from him, and peace to the Jews who were near. 18 Now all of us can come to the Father through the same Holy Spirit because of what Christ has done for us.


19 So now you Gentiles are no longer strangers and foreigners. You are citizens along with all of God’s holy people. You are members of God’s family. 20 Together, we are his house, built on the foundation of the apostles and the prophets. And the cornerstone is Christ Jesus himself. 21 We are carefully joined together in him, becoming a holy temple for the Lord. 22 Through him you Gentiles are also being made part of this dwelling where God lives by his Spirit.

John 13:3–5

Jesus knew that the Father had given him authority over everything and that he had come from God and would return to God. So he got up from the table, took off his robe, wrapped a towel around his waist, and poured water into a basin. Then he began to wash the disciples’ feet, drying them with the towel he had around him.

Galatians 5:22–23

22 But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things!


Reflect on the Passages

Take a moment to read through the passages slowly. Ask the Holy Spirit to speak to you through them.


Is there a word or phrase that God is drawing to your attention? What is He saying to you through these passages?

Engage with the Message

1) What stood out to you from the Scripture passages and/or this week's message?


2) In what ways is God challenging you and/or encouraging you through the message?


3) If you had only one word to explain where we're at as a society, what word do you think would best capture it?


4) Do you see unity as a central component of the gospel? Why do you think Paul was so insistent about this?


5) What does it mean to live in unity with one another? How do we experience "oneness" with people who aren't like us?


6) Why do you think we've become so polarized throughout the pandemic? What is different about this issue than the other things we tend to disagree on that makes it so heated?


7) In the sermon, we talked about four practices that can help us overcome our divisions and move towards a greater sense of unity: anchoring our identity in Christ, seeing others through the eyes of Christ, crossing the divide, and focusing on the fruit of the Spirit. Which of these practices do you find the most challenging? Which comes the most naturally do you? Do you see any of them as being more important than the others in moving towards unity? What other practices do you think might help us overcome our divisions?


8) How do you think the church can lead the way in overcoming the divisions within our society?